MASTERKEYWENDYHT – WEEK 15 BLOG – Extending the Miracle of my birth beyond today-to my Purpose

A great “aha” moment this week, for which I am truly grateful to everyone in the MKMMA, as you’re all part of my MKMMA journey!

From our MK Lesson 15-20, we learned (again) that “if we wish our ideal to be beautiful or strong, we must see that the words out of which this temple will eventually be created are exact…because accuracy in building words and sentences is the highest form of architecture in civilization and is a passport to success.”

Words. Hmmmm. Well, OG’s writing style in Scroll 3 didn’t quite sit well with me, so I resolved to re-write any challenging passages in future scrolls. Soooooo, my mini Scroll 4 reads:

“I am nature’s greatest miracle
– rare and valuable
– with infinite potential
I am a sister to all – yet I am a unique creature.
I proclaim my uniqueness and the uniqueness of my services in the market place.
The miracle of my birth I extend beyond my birth,
beyond today

[as I become…
“…the grandest version of the greatest vision I’ve ever had about myself.” (quote:  Conversations with God, N.D. Walsch]

I am here on earth for a purpose
– to grow into a mountain
– not to shrink to a grain of sand.
I see all discouragements as great opportunities and I emerge victorious.”

[You could stop reading now if you’d like the short version of this blog – but then you wouldn’t know what the aha was ;-))]

And the aha?
The 5th last paragraph of Scroll 4:
“No beast, no plant, no wind, no rain, no rock, no lake had the same beginning as I, for I was conceived in love and brought forth with a purpose. In the past I have not considered this fact but it will henceforth shape and guide my life.”

Just a little challenge here, as I was not conceived in love. In fact, my mother tried to commit suicide by putting her head in a gas oven when she discovered she was pregnant with me. This is for information only – because this gets much more exciting very soon 😉

How to make sense of this little stumbling block? I looked to Haanel’s writing.

In MK Lesson 15-7, we learn that “All conditions and experiences that come to us do so for our benefit. Difficulties and obstacles will continue to come until we absorb their wisdom and gather from them the essentials of further growth.” Do you see the connection with OG above? This is HUGE!!!

And 15-8 continues “That we reap what we sow is mathematically exact. We gain permanent strength exactly to the extent of the effort required to overcome difficulties.”

And, in MK 15-26: “…the all-important truth that a thought containing principle is vital and therefore contains life and consequently takes root, and eventually but surely and certainly displaces the negative thoughts, which by their very nature can contain no vitality, is one which seems to have been overlooked.”

15-27: “But this is a fact which will enable you to destroy every manner of discord, lack and limitation.”

15-28: “There can be no question but that he who ‘is wise enough to understand’ will readily recognize that the creative power of thought places an invincible weapon in his hands and makes him a master of destiny.”

So, those of you who happened to read my week 14 blog realize that I had the Fear / Paralysis Reflex (FPR for short) re-emerge over the holidays. You’ll notice I did not make the FPR “possessive!” The FPR emerges in utero at 5 weeks and, if all goes well, merges into the Moro (infant “startle”) reflex at about 12 weeks in utero. However, if there’s trauma in utero (gas oven, no pilot light = toxins = trauma), the FPR may not develop and become fully inhibited – in which case the FPR and Moro Reflexes can run like a pair of sub-programmes, triggering other primitive and postural reflexes throughout one’s life.

And because the FPR is a “withdrawal” reflex that emerges at the embryonic stage rather than at the fetal stage, the way the cells “protect” the embryo is to coat the cells with a hard protein covering. While these proteins “protect” the embryo, they also make it difficult for the cells to take in nutrients or expel toxins. Not an ideal situation.

The Fear/Paralysis Reflex is very often present in people who are hyper-shy, hyper-sensitive, have experienced trauma (whiplash, PTSD, stroke, illness) as well as in children Autism / Asperger’s, Sensory Processing Disorders, ADHD, Balance/Coordination challenges, all the Dys’s (dyslexia, dyspraxia, dysgraphia, etc.), memory challenges, anxiety, etc.

Now, one of my challenges in my business has been to “choose a niche market” – you can see that there are MANY possibilities!!! Choosing “just one” niche was soooo difficult IN THE PAST.  BUT TODAY, I GET IT!

Going back to OG’s 5th last paragraph: I was “brought forth with a purpose. In the past I have not considered this fact but it will henceforth shape and guide my life.”  But what purpose?

We know that our best work reflects our life’s journey. Well, there have been a lot of traumas in my life and I think I got bogged down in the variety of these traumas and so my thinking was clouded.

With a little help from Haanel – the Intro to Part 15 – the LIGHT BULB WENT ON when, when he described the experiments with parasites that developed wings when their food/water source disappeared:
“Experiments such as these indicate that Omniscience as well as Omnipotence is omnipresent and that the tiniest living thing can take advantage of it in an emergency.”

Therefore, an “tiny” embryo experiencing an emergency in utero goes into “withdrawal” – and it’s a tad tricky to put yourself out in the world if you are being ruled by a Fear/Paralysis Reflex…hence my being attracted to the MKMMA programme!!  Now, I know that at 64 years of age, I may find that the FPR resurfaces on occasion – yet doing my “work” has allowed peace and calm to become part of my life. This was something I’ve spent almost 65 years attempting to find.

What I now see clearly, is that my “niche market” is very specific – I serve people whose lives have been or are still affected by the Fear / Paralysis Reflex. Simple. One niche. Maybe a few different marketing campaigns down the road – yet it’s a clear area of focus for my business.  That’s a huge relief, as it’s been a stumbling block in every business training I’ve ever taken!!! Thank goodness for our DMP’s. That gave me so much to work with. And today’s “ahah” has created a deeper understanding of how I choose to move forward in my work and in my life from now on.

And, finally, since we know the Law of Attraction is also the Law of Love, I would like to share with you the fact that, although I had never bonded with my natural mother (indeed I told her to leave my life when I was 9 years old), it was while I was teaching one of my classes on Integrating Childhood Reflexes (not the name of a modality) that I spontaneously, and for the first time in my life, felt a surge of love for my mother! And along with that came an understanding of how stressful her life must have been for her to have attempted to gas herself.

What an insight! What a gift! What a miracle that I obviously chose to put in sufficient effort as an embryo in order to “…gain permanent strength exactly to the extent of the effort required to overcome difficulties” and so be able to extend the miracle of my birth beyond today … to my Purpose.

Mahalo, from the bottom of my heart, to all of you who are part of this wondrous MKMMA journey!

27 thoughts on “MASTERKEYWENDYHT – WEEK 15 BLOG – Extending the Miracle of my birth beyond today-to my Purpose”

    1. Aloha Carole, Mahalo for your kind words. I love the aha’s we get on this journey. I look forward to your next blog – I love reading them – and I also love reading your comments on other people’s blogs. You really are a GEM! Yours in Gratitude, Light & Love, wendyht

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  1. Funny, as I read and Mark said you were conceived in love – I wondered how many people were going to think “well I am pretty sure I wasn’t conceived in love or as you say even worse thoughts” but then if a miracle was created – and that creation is now helping others – love in action.. My life’s path has not been the easiest either, but I have forgiven a lot of wrongs, as you say, simply by saying and knowing that my parents were only working with what they had learned and the circumstances others put them under. They were working with what their subby’s told them, what they had to work with, and what they thought their circumstances would lead them to.
    Thank goodness, we are on a journey to have more tools, to perceive and create our lives as we wish – not as we have been told is the right way. Peace be your journey and it is my sincere wish for 2016 that the entire world could know peace and happiness! I am looking for courage in the world this week – and after reading your blog I now have another large dot for my chart today. Thanks for sharing, I am sure you have helped many with your words!

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    1. Aloha Connie, Mahalo for your thoughtful comments. Yes, I believe we’re very blessed to be on this MKMMA journey together. I have found many insights and much encouragement from others in MKMMA – when reading their blogs or their comments on my blogs – it’s such an amazing programme! Yours in Gratitude, Light & Love wendyht


  2. I have goose bumps by reading your post. What a Bliss you are for people that may experience that fear! You are really making a difference in this world. You did the best possible in the difficult situation and now you are victorious over it. Amazing!! A lot of love to you through the Ocean.


    1. Aloha Chiara, Mahalo for your comment. Please know I am sending lots of Light & Love and Gratitude to you, too. This is a wonderful journey we’re on – I feel so priviledged to be on this journey with you and the other MKMMAers. I wish you a wondrous 2016. Mahalo wendyht


  3. Wow Wendy, that was some powerful work you did and what a wonderful breakthrough for you with your birth Mom! Coming around to opening your heart like that takes a lot of work and a lot of strength born from vulnerability! A lot to digest in this blog the way you rewrote it resonates strongly with me. Thank you!

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    1. Aloha Ruby, Mahalo for your oh so encouraging words. I’m so glad my blog resonated with you. You’re a GEM!! I feel blessed to be on this MKMMA journey with you. Yours in Gratitude, Light & Love wendyht


  4. aloha Honey Forgiveness is Always the Key to LOVE its amazing the deals we make with the ones we love before we arrive FOR only someone who Truly LOVES us can do what is necessary for our Journey here…Love Light & many SunShine Blessings 🙂

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  5. Aloha Wendy, I hope you know I’m truly one of your Fans here in the Blog world, and I need to tell you , I think you are a Warrior. You have risen above a lot of Hurt and Fear (shall we just banish those words from now on!) Because you do make me believe (at 61) I have a lot of growth & living, still to do, and I’m more open to it now, than I’ve ever been
    Mahalo sweet Wendy the Warrior. You are an Amazing writer🌺💕

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    1. Oh, my Dear Sherry – Mahalo for your amazing comments. Wow! Would you believe that the thought of blogging was terrifying for me initially? I’m getting to be more comfortable with it these days. I’m so amazed at all the wonderful insights our fellow MKMMA members share with everyone…they’re very inspirational. Wishing you and all our MKMMA members a wondrous and “luminous” (as Yoda said) 2016. Yours in Gratitude, Light & Love wendyht

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  6. Hi Wendy, You wrote an amazing blog! You are so wise with the knowledge and experience that has brought you where you are today. I was adopted and my birth mother was 15 (grade 9) when she became pregnant and gave me up when I was born. When you speak about the FPR reflex, believe me, I got the message in my cells from her that I was not wanted. I was born 3 months premature at 3.6 oz. and lived in an incubator for whatever time before I was adopted but went to a foster home from the hospital and then became adopted by my adoptive parents who I brought me home when I was 9 months old. I have dealt all my life with “I’m not good enough” message and have done transformational work since 1986. I too, sense that the MKMMA is the course that will burst open who I really am although I have had “aha” experiences from time to time. Thanks for sharing!


    1. Aloha and Mahalo for sharing your wonderful comments on my blog. Please know that YOU are NATURE’S MIRACLE – each of us on this MKMMA journey is Nature’s Miracle and I feel this group is more my FAMILY than my original famiy or my extended step family from my youth. Please know that I’m sending you much courage as you and I follow our MKMMA journey together. And, as an aside, the day after writing my blog (saying I was now going to focus on working with people to integrate their Fear Paralysis Reflex), I got an email from someone in Europe who had read something I’d written about my work – she asked if I work with adults and if I can work 1 on 1. My answer to her was YES. So, I’m taking that as a definite sign from the Universal “I” that I’m on the right track with my dmp – it’s just going to be bigger…a real DMP Movement!! I wish you a wondrous 2016 full of insights and progress. Yours in Gratitude, Light, Love & Support always – all ways wendyht


      1. That is fabulous news Wendy and I believe you have bigger and better things ahead for you. You are an amazing writer and I so enjoying your blogs! Keep up the great work! You inspire me! – blessings be – Jera

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  7. Wendy, congratulations on your profoundly and liberating insights. It’s amazing how much you have ALREADY accomplished in your life, even with lurking reflexes weighting you down. I’m so eager to watch you FLY!!

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    1. Aloha Linda, Thanks heaps for your very encouraging comments 😉
      Looking forward to my “flight” too ;D The day after writing my blog, which stated that I was focusing on assisting people integrate their Fear Paralysis Reflex, I got an email from someone in Europe asking me to do just that!! An adult, asking if I could work 1 on 1 with an adult. Yes :-))) Yippee wendyht


  8. So inspiring to see the growth and awareness brought out in you. Your story is compelling in this post and an awesome demonstration of the principles we are discovering/rediscovering.


    1. Aloha Terry, Mahalo for your kind comment…it means a lot to me. I look forward to reading your next blog. Mahalo for being on this MKMMA journey with all of us. Yours in Gratitude, Light & Love wendyht


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